Sometimes we only call friends the folk that agree with everything we say; only telling us what we want to hear even when we are in error, even to the point of lying to us. And call enemies, folk who contest our errant attitudes, behavior, and conversation. This doesn’t hold water with the God who calls, equips, and sends folk to help us see things HIS way. A real friend with concern will tell you the truth and love you no matter what you might do. If you shield yourself by falsity, your security system will fail, falling short of what is best for you in the end.